Friendship is a precious element of human life. Many films
related to friendship have been made and books have been written. Different
scholars, theologians and psychologists have defined friendship differently.
The definition of friendship is defined in many ways but the
basic feeling it gives is the same. In the general sense of friendship,
friendship is a dynamic relationship where two people treat each other equally
without any selfishness.
Friendship is not based on color, race or class. It is a
relationship that builds up with the behavior of age and time. With different times and ages, friendships are formed with
different people. Friendship is an important relationship for children. Because
there is no selfishness in their friendship. While there is selfishness in the
friendship formed by an adult.
In the phase of globalization, the importance of
relationships is declining. The urban lifestyle has become limited to one room.
However, the rural lifestyle is still friendly.
Nowadays, urban children become stressed at an early age.
Equality is show in the friendly behavior of children, while selfishness is
hidden in the friendship of adults. Lack of age-appropriate friends is also a
factor in the stress of urban children.
Today, the practice of single family is widespread. As a
friend of the children, the parents are helping them in playing, reading, etc.
It is a very positive thing for parents to change their role as friends today.
Children are called the form of God. It is said that they
never lie. There is no selfishness in the relationship of children. Friendship
is reflected in every relationship they form. Childhood does not come back and
some friendships made at the same age never break as long as they survive.
So childhood is an important period of human life, just as
friendship is an integral part of human life. By associating with a friend according to age, children can
have the opportunity to learn many important things that they could not learn
with their parents. So let's give children a chance to choose friends according
to their age.
